PERCEPTION OF CHILDREN ABOUT PARENTS
[Western Sayana Astrology]
Astrology can provide insights to understand how the child is feeling about the relationship with his parents. This also tells is how important it is to create a correct picture of ourselves to our children. This would protect the children from insecurity and gives them good psychology. This article discusses the child psychology and how it affects their future and perception of their parents.
Children grew up by seeing and understanding their parents. Each of the children in the same family may understand their parents differently. When the native has two children, he would become a disciplinarian for his first child where as he may become a friend for the second child. This can reflect in the horoscopes of children. Let us understand that the original nature of the parent does not change. But, his interaction with the children will make them understand him differently.
The movie 'Animal' by Sandeep Reddy Vanga, portrays Ranbir Kapoor as a neglected son of his father who acquires a criminal mentality and takes revenge on his father's enemies. The son expects boundless love from his father. When he could not get it, he develops a crude psychology which makes him behave like an animal. The son feels that his father is a 'hero' and the father feels that his son is a 'criminal'. The perceptions are different. When we observe the 10th house in the horoscope of the child, we can tell the picture of the child about his father. Similarly, the 4th house indicates how the child views his mother.
The planets in the 10th and 4th houses (or their lords) will create a different perception for the children about their parents as given below:
- Sun: Authority figure or bossy parent
- Moon: Care taking and homely parent
- Mercury: Intelligent and witty parent
- Venus: Friendly and attractive parent
- Mars: Angry and tensed parent
- Jupiter: Religious and spiritual parent
- Saturn: Disciplined, critical and hardworking parent
- Uranus: Genius and exceptional parent
- Neptune: Unusual, peculiar and psychic parent
- Pluto: Dominating parent
CASE: Father is hero or zero?
The horoscope charts shown at right side belong to two sons of the same parent. In the elder son's horoscope, 10th house (Mc) is Aries where Mars is posited. Mars is strong in Aries. This denotes that this child thinks that his father is an angry, rude and stubborn person who cannot be convinced easily.
In the younger son's chart, 10th house (Mc) is Pisces where Jupiter is posited. Pisces indicates a sign of psychology, imagination and renunciation. Jupiter in this sign expands these characteristics while adding spirituality. Hence this second child thinks that his father is a spiritual person striving to achieve renunciation.
When we look at the father's horoscope, we can find that it indicates all the qualities perceived by the first son and the second son.
Extending this discussion further, the first son thinks that his mother is beautiful and treats her as a friend since his 4th house is Libra whose lord is Venus. The second son thinks that his mother is clever and speaks very nice since his 4th lord is Mercury. Of course, we can find all these qualities in her. She is educated, beautiful, friendly and speaks softly.
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